What was taken, what was taken over, when, and what each agency did with that information. Serial numbers, IMEIs and account identifiers are not published here; they are on file with the agencies named and are listed on the Evidence page as held. Entries marked † are my account and are not yet matched to a document.
Devices
Device
What happened
On the record
Phone (original)
Taken while I was inpatient at St. Clare’s, June 10–13, 2025. Hospital staff gave it to him. Messages went from my number to a friend and clients, some as me, some as police. Never returned. †
Described in my complaint to the Morris County Prosecutor’s Office, December 4, 2025.
Phone (replacement)
Bought by him on June 14, 2025. Taken with the rest of my belongings on June 25, 2025 at the Hilton in Parsippany. Never returned.
Theft report 25-042689, July 7, 2025. Serial number and IMEI sent to Parsippany PD July 22, 2025 and to the Prosecutor’s Office February 4, 2026. Apple subpoena drafted July 21, 2026; declined by the Prosecutor’s Office; “getting approved” as of October 27, 2026.
MacBook Pro
Taken June 25, 2025 with the phone. Value over $4,000. Held about $200,000 of professional video work and the paperwork needed to use it. Never returned.
Theft report 25-042689. Value and contents in my email to the reporting officer, July 22, 2025.
Other phones
Multiple phones lost or rendered unusable between June and August 2025. † Dates and identifiers being compiled from carrier records.
My complaint to the Prosecutor’s Office, December 4, 2025; carrier line and device mapping, held.
Accounts and systems
Account or system
What happened
On the record
Home security system
Accessed repeatedly after I changed the credentials. A device I logged out logged back in. My safe word with the alarm company was changed. Keypad entries I did not make followed. I left my home with my children.
Parsippany report 25-036872, June 7, 2025: “not a violation.” Account and intrusion report 25-047998, August 4, 2025: report only.
Email
Accessed by someone else. A screenshot of a hotel receipt from my email was posted online while my children, my mother and I were at that hotel for safety. †
Described in my complaint to the Prosecutor’s Office, December 4, 2025; screenshot held.
Social media
My location was posted to my 20,000-plus followers from that receipt. Accounts lost. †
Same.
Apple IDs
Several, locked out or taken over, June 2025. †
Same. Apple records subpoena pending (above).
Google accounts
Locked out, June 2025. †
Same.
Meta accounts
Lost, June 2025. †
Same.
Phone line and carrier
SIMs linked to my line between May and July 2025 that I did not request; lines and devices on the account I did not recognize; the account email lost in June 2025. †
Carrier line and device mapping, held. Verizon subpoena approved September 1, 2026, records received October 9, 2026. T-Mobile preservation request, October 7, 2026: no answer.
Bank and payment accounts
Locked out. He accused me of fraud to my bank and to a company I worked with. Left without access to money or transportation services while I had no car. †
My complaint to the Prosecutor’s Office, December 4, 2025.
Business accounts and website
My company’s website, which he had helped build with a technician of his, was taken down. I was locked out of joint business accounts and still have no access. †
Same.
What I asked for, and what was done
Asked
When
Result
Forensic examination of my devices
Parsippany PD, 2025, repeatedly
Not done. Restated to the Prosecutor’s Office December 4, 2025. Not done.
Hotel security video, Hilton Parsippany, June 25, 2025
Email to the reporting officer, July 22, 2025
No reply. No indication it was requested.
Subpoena for the stolen phone’s records
Identifiers provided July 22, 2025 and February 4, 2026
First subpoena drafted July 21, 2026, 364 days later. Declined by the Prosecutor’s Office in August. Narrower Verizon subpoena approved September 1. Apple subpoena “getting approved” October 27, 2026.
Preservation letters to T-Mobile and Apple
October 7, 2026
No answer as of November 3, 2026.
Whether any subpoena or preservation letter had been sent in the criminal case
Sex Crimes Unit, May 22, 2026
No answer.
Every one of these could have been confirmed or ruled out with a standard forensic examination, a preservation letter, or a subpoena in the summer of 2025. I asked for each of them. The first investigative step on the theft came 379 days after the report.
