Two columns. On the left, what he told police, courts and hospital staff. On the right, what he was doing at the time. Every entry cites the record it comes from. Entries marked † are my account and are not yet matched to a document; the document has been requested.
June 4, 2025
What he told them
What he did
Denville Police and the Family Court: that he needed a restraining order against me, with a warrant to search my home for the revolver. FV-14-001263-25; service recorded in Parsippany report 25-036330.
Hours earlier, I had gone to Parsippany Police to report his threats, including his threat to make false reports to child protective services, and the revolver he had brought into my home. Report 25-036281. His order was obtained the same afternoon.
June 5, 2025
What he told them
What he did
A Parsippany officer, on a recorded police line: the revolver “had never belonged to him” and had been given to me by an unidentified “drug dealer.” Report 25-036435.
I told the officers he had given me the handgun in late March or early April and that I had left it in my closet because I was afraid of it. Same report. The State later moved to forfeit the weapon. FO-14-000042-26.
June 9–10, 2025
What he told them
What he did
St. Clare’s: that he was a “close friend,” and gave them my “history.” †
He was my intimate partner, the relationship he had sworn to five days earlier to obtain a restraining order. He was also my prescribing physician. The hospital’s own note of June 11 records Xanax, Suboxone and Wellbutrin prescribed to me by him in May. EX-061.
June 10–13, 2025
What he told them
What he did
Hospital staff, daily: that he was the friend who had brought me in, there to visit. †
Took my phone from the hospital. Messages went from my number to a friend and to clients, some written as me, some claiming to be police. † On discharge, took me to south Jersey. † On June 14, my birthday, a prescription he wrote for me was filled in Red Bank. EX-060.
June 26, 2025
What he told them
What he did
Mount Arlington Police: that I was paranoid, delusional, suicidal, threatening him, and actively psychotic. Case 2025-05547; as I recorded in my email to Parsippany Police of July 22, 2025. The same day he obtained a second restraining order against me, FV-14-001345-25, served on me at the hospital.
My driver’s license was in his trunk when officers had him search his bags. Case 2025-05547. He had my phone and laptop. Report 25-042689; witness statement EX-050. He had been prescribing me an antipsychotic since at least June 14 and had raised the dose on June 21. EX-060. The hospital psychiatrist found lucid and clear mentation, no mania, no psychosis, no imminent risk, and cleared me for discharge. EX-062.
June 30 – July 4, 2025
What he told them
What he did
The court, four days earlier: that he needed protection from me. His restraining order against me was in force for all of these days.
Took me from outside the Morris County courthouse into Pennsylvania and kept me there until July 4: in Milford, where we stayed, and in St. Marys, five hours west. † On July 1, while we were in Milford, two prescriptions he wrote for me were filled at a pharmacy there. EX-060. The protected party in an active restraining order had the restrained party across state lines.
July 8, 2025
What he told them
What he did
The court: that he no longer needed the order. The second restraining order was dismissed at his request. He had already withdrawn the first.
Two restraining orders obtained in June. Two withdrawn by him in July. Each was in force during a period in which, by his own account to hospital staff and police, he was the person closest to me.
This page grows as documents come in. The records that would replace each † with a citation are listed on the Evidence page as requested or held.
